by pro_star » Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:19 pm
It's kinda funny....how you can never really escape the past anymore. In today's world of technology, where everyone is connected, it's not as easy to just drop one person out of your life anymore.
At one point, moving cross country and stating your intentions would be enough. Provided that said person you want out was not the crazy stalker type.
Now, you can delete them off lists. You can block them off facebook, yet you'll still get reminders of that person. You'll get facebook saying "you have 3 friends in common! add this person!"
You can go back home for an innocent visit with your family - and if you set your msn status as something like "back in ottawa" so that people in town KNOW and can get in touch with you - then you'll get messages from that person, and it all comes rushing back.
Yes, I'm a little messed up. How is it that years later, just seeing a picture of someone is enough to bring it all back...
We women are emotional creatures. We don't forget. A lot of you guys seem so able to just forget and move on...I don't know how we are wired differently, but it sucks. First loves, even jerk ones, seem to still affect us.
On a totally not totally off topic note, guys with ladies: don't be afraid to let her know how she makes you feel. Give her some ego boosts sometimes. some days, we need it.
My Volvo:
Christine
1998 s70 T5
391,000 km
QBM Endlinks
Sassy new brake lines (without blowing up the shop!)
Sexy e-codes! (thanks fcp!)
Bilstein HDs sitting in my trunk waiting for install
Summer tire time!!!! Whoot! Yokohama S Drive - let sunroof season begin!!!